Tip One: Think About the Happy Times and Stop divorce
I am sure both of you used to love each other very deeply. If not, you and your spouse will not get married in the first place. In other words, no matter how bad your current situation is, there was a time where the marriage was in good condition. So you can try to remind your partner about those happy memories.
Tip Two: Start Over
The next step in your quest to stop your divorce is to begin again. You need to look at your marriage as a brand new marriage. While you should keep in mind the good times, you need to forget the bad times and learn about your spouse all over again.
People do change. So do you and your spouse. So, for the marriage to work, you need to look at what kind of person your spouse is now. Do not try to get your spouse to change back to the person he or she used to be. Also, you need to accept them as they are.
When you take the two steps recommended above, you will increase your chances of saving your marriage. Of course, if you think you need more help, do not be shy to ask for it. There are ways to save your marriage and you should be willing to learn new things.
Tip Three: For the last step, you need to have a sound plan that wil most likely work as well a grasp of the right timing.
After some time, you will be more than ready to get back together after splitting up. It is probably the right time to plan where to execute your plan and how to execute it. Of course, by now, you are probably very clear about what you want out of the relationship and whether you still have feelings for him or her.
Now that everything has ended, do not focus on who is right and who is wrong. That is really not important. Do not dwell on the negatives. Focus on the positives instead. A very casual conversation can be a great way to get started. If it is impossible to save that relationship immediately, you can always start off as being friends again. I am sure both of you used to be friends to begin with.
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